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Dating as an Occultist

Gurublue

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Dude this is probably the most difficult thing. Finding a woman who is spirtual at a similar capacity or is into the occult herself. I am a 32 year old male in Southern California and generally, I attract a good amount of women that I find physically attractive. However, I dont find them mentally attractive. Which in the end is the most important part for me. They are missing that spiritual flare that my soul desires. I realized I need a magickal woman. Someone who understands my world as an occultist and that I can be myself around. For those who know, where could I find people like us to date. Im tired of the mundane relationships and crave for something deeper and magickal. Any ideas ?
 

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If your in southern California that shouldn't be too hard. Dating apps and then filtering by interest. Some of the apps might be able to filter by interest. There also might a specific dating app that occultist generally want to go too.

Adding in the bio section that you like the occult could help. Or saying specifically in the bio that you only want other people that are also in the occult making your preferences known.

Getting into occult communities might be beneficial too like researching them.
 

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Dude this is probably the most difficult thing. Finding a woman who is spirtual at a similar capacity or is into the occult herself. I am a 32 year old male in Southern California and generally, I attract a good amount of women that I find physically attractive. However, I dont find them mentally attractive. Which in the end is the most important part for me. They are missing that spiritual flare that my soul desires. I realized I need a magickal woman. Someone who understands my world as an occultist and that I can be myself around. For those who know, where could I find people like us to date. Im tired of the mundane relationships and crave for something deeper and magickal. Any ideas ?
In Wicca circles? In the closest occult store? Among tarot readers?
 

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Dating apps and then filtering by interest
Are you sure about the apps, I have not heard about anybody having success with those. Spiritual people often meet through courses, it might even be possible to find through something as basic as a yoga class. Another good idea is to do some ritual work for it, then take part of some courses, look around, be active socially.:unsure:
 

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Are you sure about the apps, I have not heard about anybody having success with those. Spiritual people often meet through courses, it might even be possible to find through something as basic as a yoga class. Another good idea is to do some ritual work for it, then take part of some courses, look around, be active socially.:unsure:
It kind of depends on the app in my opinion. I've heard that some or maybe most just want to you to buy premium but I've heard some sucess stories with a few.

But your right that finding someone by being active in real life is probably the tried and true method.
 

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Dude this is probably the most difficult thing. Finding a woman who is spirtual at a similar capacity or is into the occult herself. I am a 32 year old male in Southern California and generally, I attract a good amount of women that I find physically attractive. However, I dont find them mentally attractive. Which in the end is the most important part for me. They are missing that spiritual flare that my soul desires. I realized I need a magickal woman. Someone who understands my world as an occultist and that I can be myself around. For those who know, where could I find people like us to date. Im tired of the mundane relationships and crave for something deeper and magickal. Any ideas ?
Use your magick? No crystal ball? Amulet? Talisman? Maybe midnight on a full moon at some location known for occult events. But seriously, you just put it out there in the universe by posting, now say it out loud a few times, and stop. Wait and see if you get what you wish for.
 

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Use your magick? No crystal ball? Amulet? Talisman? Maybe midnight on a full moon at some location known for occult events. But seriously, you just put it out there in the universe by posting, now say it out loud a few times, and stop. Wait and see if you get what you wish for.
Thank you!
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Are you sure about the apps, I have not heard about anybody having success with those. Spiritual people often meet through courses, it might even be possible to find through something as basic as a yoga class. Another good idea is to do some ritual work for it, then take part of some courses, look around, be active socially.:unsure:
Thank you!
 

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Dude this is probably the most difficult thing. Finding a woman who is spirtual at a similar capacity or is into the occult herself. I am a 32 year old male in Southern California and generally, I attract a good amount of women that I find physically attractive. However, I dont find them mentally attractive. Which in the end is the most important part for me. They are missing that spiritual flare that my soul desires. I realized I need a magickal woman. Someone who understands my world as an occultist and that I can be myself around. For those who know, where could I find people like us to date. Im tired of the mundane relationships and crave for something deeper and magickal. Any ideas ?
I purposefully found one that wasnt into the occult. The reason being, that they could serve as a grounding energy while im exploring the clouds. They dont have to understand, just be there and be quiet enough that i dont break focus. Thatd all i ask.
 
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