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[Help] What magical operations have you done that have made you more attractive to the opposite sex?

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I'm not talking about rites that make a specific target feel attracted to you. I'm talking about something that boosts your attractiveness level in general.

So, on another site, someone said that they began using the Draconian ritual book. And that's what's done it. I've tried searching for their original post to ask questions. I've tried asking for that post. Nothing.

So, what have you personally have done that has had this type of effect? Whether intentional or not?
 

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I'm not talking about rites that make a specific target feel attracted to you. I'm talking about something that boosts your attractiveness level in general.

So, on another site, someone said that they began using the Draconian ritual book. And that's what's done it. I've tried searching for their original post to ask questions. I've tried asking for that post. Nothing.

So, what have you personally have done that has had this type of effect? Whether intentional or not?
Took shower, washed hair, cut hair, used clean clothes and behaved like polite human being.
 

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See above posts, ditto those, all good advice.

Now something that I noticed and found interesting along these lines is how the initial reactions of strangers especially would seem to change based on the type of rituals I was doing.

So I use to travel a lot for work and would stay up several nights a week preparing/doing evocations at the time. So a constant changing string of new hotels and nighttime hotel staff. After I completed my ritual, I would clean up change clothes and go thru the lobby for coffee/tea/fresh air. And there seemed to be a very strong correlation between what I had been evoking and the staffs’ reaction to me. From cheerful, startled, flirty, etc… which I found interesting.

-Eld
 

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I am always fond of Lon Milo Duquette’s take on this kind of thing. Magick isn’t making other people more attracted to you, it is changing yourself into the kind of person who is more attractive.

Love yourself, eat better, sleep better, exercise more, have impeccable hygiene. Have the discipline and self respect to take care of your body and mind and make those things non negotiable and you will soon find others more drawn to you.

“Magick is the science and art of causing change to occur in conformity with will” (Crowley)

This is not a glib answer, having consistency in the above is difficult and rare these days. It will also set you up to have the discipline to have a magical practice that will involve consistency in ritual, study and meditation.

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I am always fond of Lon Milo Duquette’s take on this kind of thing. Magick isn’t making other people more attracted to you, it is changing yourself into the kind of person who is more attractive.

Love yourself, eat better, sleep better, exercise more, have impeccable hygiene. Have the discipline and self respect to take care of your body and mind and make those things non negotiable and you will soon find others more drawn to you.

“Magick is the science and art of causing change to occur in conformity with will” (Crowley)

This is not a glib answer, having consistency in the above is difficult and rare these days. It will also set you up to have the discipline to have a magical practice that will involve consistency in ritual, study and meditation.

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I think you're thinking that I'm asking for spells that directly alter an individual's feelings towards me. While I intended to be open if anyone was to have anything on that, I'd rather just use magic to up my own attractiveness.

I described a post I saw on another forum, that in using meditations in a specific book, the poster managed to become more attractive as a side effect. I'd imagine that bonding to that energy didn't actually force anyone to feel a certain way about him, but instead invoked something more primal in the women around him, this having that effect. This is the type of thing I'm specifically asking about.

As said, I'm open to experience with direct spells. But I'm of the opinion that attraction is best when it's a passive byproduct, rather than a deliberate act.

I hope I was clearer about my goal.
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I think you're thinking that I'm asking for spells that directly alter an individual's feelings towards me. While I intended to be open if anyone was to have anything on that, I'd rather just use magic to up my own attractiveness.

I described a post I saw on another forum, that in using meditations in a specific book, the poster managed to become more attractive as a side effect. I'd imagine that bonding to that energy didn't actually force anyone to feel a certain way about him, but instead invoked something more primal in the women around him, this having that effect. This is the type of thing I'm specifically asking about.

As said, I'm open to experience with direct spells. But I'm of the opinion that attraction is best when it's a passive byproduct, rather than a deliberate act.

I hope I was clearer about my goal.
Not that I'm in any position to do direct love spells on anyone. Where I live, the majority of spaces are family friendly. That means I'm sharing these spaces with teens. Any adults in the area are either married, or simply just off the table for whatever reason. Not that I know who is who.
 
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I think you're thinking that I'm asking for spells that directly alter an individual's feelings towards me. While I intended to be open if anyone was to have anything on that, I'd rather just use magic to up my own attractiveness.

I described a post I saw on another forum, that in using meditations in a specific book, the poster managed to become more attractive as a side effect. I'd imagine that bonding to that energy didn't actually force anyone to feel a certain way about him, but instead invoked something more primal in the women around him, this having that effect. This is the type of thing I'm specifically asking about.

As said, I'm open to experience with direct spells. But I'm of the opinion that attraction is best when it's a passive byproduct, rather than a deliberate act.

I hope I was clearer about my goal.
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Not that I'm in any position to do direct love spells on anyone. Where I live, the majority of spaces are family friendly. That means I'm sharing these spaces with teens. Any adults in the area are either married, or simply just off the table for whatever reason. Not that I know who is who.
I see where you are coming from. My original points stand, but I would agree that balancing and charging your energy field, will make you more attractive generally. You will have lover stress and more confidence.

I think Jason Miller talks about the “glamour” effect in his book sorcerers secrets. It’s a good fundamental text on Magick and it talks a lot about approaching any problem with multiple approaches, practical and Magickal.
 

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The best rite I ever did was lift weights daily, learn to fight, go out more, and approach more women. I was nervous at first, but I treated it like a game. Every rejection taught me how be a better socialite, and every romantic encounter taught me more about women.

....barring that, Sitri will make you very attractive to all the crazies.
 
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